STOP DIMMING YOUR LIGHT—START OWNING YOUR POWER.

STOP WHISPERING. STOP WAITING FOR PERMISSION. TIME TO BE YOU.


Trans woman life coach creating brave spaces where ALL women reclaim their voice, power, and presence.

From surviving to thriving isn’t a cliché. It’s a choice. YOUR choice.


BetterSelf Coaching is a bilingual online space where womanhood is honored as lived experience, not a birthright • An intersectional sisterhood that includes ALL women.
YOU’RE NOT BROKEN. YOU DON’T NEED FIXING”

You know there’s more to you than what you’re showing the world.
You feel it—that pull toward something bigger, more honest, more YOU.
But every time you try to step forward, you hear those voices:

“Stay in your lane.”
“Don’t be too much.”
“That’s not for someone like you.”

And so you stop.
You shrink.
You drain.


But what if I told you:
The voices are wrong.


Enough is enough.


YOU are enough.

I’m Gabriela, a trans woman life coach and truth-teller helping ALL women—and by ALL women, I mean the full spectrum of womanhood—break through the noise and step into their power.

My work is deep.


It doesn’t fix you — because you are not broken.


It helps you reclaim, remember, and own what’s already yours. 

Because you deserve more than just surviving your own life. You deserve thrive in life.


Stop waiting for permission.

It’s time to thrive, unapologetically, together, in an inclusive sisterhood.


Own it! All of it!

We don’t get angry—we get it all.

Work With Me

I see you. I hear you. I’ve got you.

This isn’t coaching for comfort—and I’m not a “let’s hold hands and feel good” coach. I’m the badass warrior who will help you get where you want to be—because I’ve been there. I’ve got the t‑shirt.

Let’s be honest. Let’s be brave.

Let’s build unbreakable confidence, healthy boundaries, the strength to say yes, and the softness to say no—without waiting for permission, and without apologising for without apologising for who you are learn more…

Gabriela’s Approach to Coaching

At BetterSelf Coaching, transformation isn’t forced—it unfolds naturally in a space of radical acceptance and fierce love.

Here, you’re met with:

Deep listening that honors your truth
Authentic presence that holds you fully
Emotional intelligence that sees beyond the surface
Zero judgment, only fierce care
Genuine warmth rooted in lived experience
Unapologetic truth that leads our way home, to ourselves.

This is an intersectional container, a sisterhood where all women reclaim their voice, power, and presence—because you’re not broken, you’re ready.

“I’ve never felt so immediately understood. There’s something about Gabriela’s presence that makes you feel safe to share things you’ve never said out loud before.”


“The warmth is real – not performative. You can tell she genuinely cares about your growth, not just the session. I left feeling like someone finally saw the real me.”

“What struck me most was how Gabriela could sit with my emotions without trying to fix them or rush me through them. She helped me find feelings I didn’t even know I was avoiding.”


“I’ve worked with other coaches before, but none with this level of emotional intelligence. She meets you exactly where you are – no judgment, no agenda, just pure presence.”

“There’s this incredible ability to create instant rapport. Within minutes, I felt like I was talking to someone who truly gets it. The conversation flowed so naturally.”


“Gabriela has this gift of helping you connect with what you’re actually feeling, not what you think you should be feeling. That’s where the real work happens.”

Food for Insight

Curated reading list for women who are done dimming their light—and ready to start owning their power.

Discover articles, book recommendations, personal reflections, and more to inspire your journey from surviving to thriving.