Meet Your Coach • Trans Life Coach • Women’s Empowerment & Authentic Life

Founder of BetterSelf Coaching • An intersectional, trans-affirmative empowerment space for All women
Gabriela, trans life coach, with curly brunette hair and natural makeup, in a soft light portrait for BetterSelf Coaching.

I’m Gabriela

My work is helping women remember their power — especially those who’ve known what it’s like to feel like an outsider — in a world that keeps trying to divide womanhood.

I know what it’s like to move through the world as someone I was expected to be — assigned and shaped at birth — and what it means to finally live as who I’ve always known myself to be. That journey taught me something powerful: authentic presence isn’t just personal transformation – it’s political resistance. It’s resilience. It’s power.

What I went through wasn’t just a transition — it was an emergence. The courage to stop performing and start living. And through that emergence, I learned: our deepest struggles often carry our greatest wisdom.

Today, I use that wisdom as a life coach to help All women find their way home to themselves — and claim their space under an intersectional womanhood that has room for all of us.

My approach blends practical life coaching with emotional intelligence and somatic awareness. But what makes our work together different is this: I Know the cost of living authentically in a world that doesn’t always make space for who you really are. 

I know what it takes to claim your identity, your voice, your right to fully exist. 

I’m a trans woman life coach, offering online coaching worldwide—intersectional feminist bridge-builder.

Whether you’re someone questioning everything you thought you knew about yourself, challenging outdated norms, navigating your own journey of becoming, feeling under attack, like the only one, quietly burning out or simply ready to stop shrinking to fit spaces that were never meant for you, I see you. I’ve been there. And I know the way forward.

Based on the South East Coast of the UK, originally from Spain, working online with intersectional women worldwide in English and Spanish. 

Because transformation has no borders, and neither does the need to come home to yourself.

This is for those ready to:
• Stop performing and start living authentically
• Navigate identity and major life transitions with someone who gets it
• Build bridges instead of walls – with others and within themselves
• Trade surface-level change for deep, lasting transformation
• Step into their full power — unapologetically

No cookie-cutter formulas. No pressure to perform. Just you, me, and the courage to step into the version of yourself that’s ready to emerge in an inclusive sisterhood.

Ready to remember your power?

“Transformation isn’t just possible — it’s natural.”

My Work

My work is grounded in something rare: the perfect storm of formal training and lived mastery.
Show me a qualification that teaches you how to rebuild your entire life from nothing but your truth. I’ll wait.

What I Do Have 
(Formal Training)

  • Life Coaching certification and full insurance
  • Three degrees including studies and research in gender identity and feminism
  • 20 years as professional performance artist (transformation is my art form)
  • Advanced training in Mindfulness, Somatic
  • work, EFT, and NLP-Informed Techniques
  • Bilingual practice serving a global community

What I Actually Bring 
(Lived Mastery)

  • 55 years of practical expertise in resilience
  • Activism survivor from Franco’s era through Madrid’s Movida cultural movement to London’s art world
  • Mastery of navigating systems that weren’t built for people like me/us/YOU
  • Neurodivergent (dyspraxia) — understanding different ways of being
  • Unbreakable resilience tested by real-world fire

The Real Question

The question isn’t whether I’m qualified.
Look at me. I am all the credentials anyone should ever need.

My life is a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and rising from ashes (literally form the ashes). You’re not just hiring a coach — you’re accessing decades of wisdom from someone who has walked every path to authenticity and emerged victorious.

Someone who challenges every social power, limiting belief, law, gender norm, age barrier, and racial boundary in a crusade for her own truth. An Intersectional womanhood that is inclusive, strong, powerful — without walls or gatekeepers . In the name of intersectional freedom, diversity, and equality.

The question is whether you’re ready for a coach who doesn’t just teach transformation — but embodies it completely.

What My Clients Says

What can you expect

“I feel lighter — like I finally have space to hear myself.”


“I untangled things I didn’t even know were connected.”


“It’s not about having all the answers — it’s about finally asking the right questions.”

Many people leave sessions feeling clearer, calmer, and more connected to themselves.

Life coaching isn’t advice — it’s insight, validation, and space to grow.

Work with Gabriela

“I never felt judged — just heard.”


“She helped me feel safe enough to explore things I’ve been avoiding.”


“It felt like a conversation, not a performance.”

My approach is grounded in:

• Deep Listening
• Authentic Presence
• Emotional Intelligence
• Zero Judgment
• Genuine Warmth

This is a space where all of you is welcome.

What not to expect

Coaching with me is not about fixing you — because you’re not broken.

I do not have answers, what I have is all the right questions.

It’s not:

• Therapy or crisis support
• Advice-giving or telling you what to do
• A quick-fix or one-size-fits-all solution
• A place where you have to prove yourself

It’s about growing — not performing. And you set the pace.