Trans-Specific Programs

For trans women: Belonging. Identity. Integration.

“Your identity is not a problem to solve. It’s a story to honour. ”

I’m going to take a little space here because I want to be crystal clear.

I’m proudly a trans woman life coach working inside the frame of intersectional feminism.

I advocate for diversity and inclusion, and I support women from all corners of womanhood—where “all women” means all women, including me and my trans sisters.

So why trans-specific programs?

Because I know there is common ground many trans women share while navigating this world—transition stories I cannot ignore: socialisation, safety, visibility, shame, belonging… and the quiet exhaustion of performing.

It wasn’t always easy for me to become the confident, unapologetic trans woman I am today. I learned. I lived it. And yes—I’m living proof it’s possible.

These programs are for trans women—not because you’re “broken,” and not because you need fixing—

This is women’s empowerment—through a trans woman’s reality. Nothing else.

because sometimes the roots are different.

This is a space with zero gatekeeping and zero judgement.

And if you’re a woman who loves a trans woman (your daughter, your partner, your friend), or you want to understand these themes with respect—you’re welcome here too. I created this because I know my community still needs it.

No proving. No explaining. No shrinking

Just deep, honest work—so you can live as yourself, on purpose.

If you don’t have the words yet, that’s OK. We start there. Let’s talk—just talk➔

Choose your focus below—start with the program that calls you:

D. Male Socialization

6 weeks — £749
  • Deprogramming Male Socialization — you’re not becoming her—you’re unlearning him
  • Name what you were taught to be, so it stops running your life
  • Release shame patterns and survival behaviours that don’t belong to you
  • Build your womanhood from truth, safety, and self-trust—on your terms
  • MORE➔

Reclaiming Your Transness

4 weeks — £499
  • Reclaiming Your Transness — come home to yourself
  • Connect with your identity–your truth without apology or performance
  • Turn confusion into clarity—so you can stand in who you are
  • Integrate your story with pride, belonging, and emotional freedom
  • MORE➔

Crossing Thresholds

4 weeks — £499
  • Crossing Thresholds — a new beginning, not the end
  • Pre‑op: emotional resilience—fear, hope, grief, and expectations
  • Post‑op integration: recovery, vulnerability, body trust, and a new relationship with yourself (and others)
  • SRS doesn’t erase who we are—it deepens belonging. It can change how we move through the world, but we are still who we are—with so much to be proud of.
  • COMING SOON — in the works
How it all works:

Each program is a 4–6 week standalone journey with weekly 90‑minute 1:1 online coaching sessions—plus worksheets, strategies, support, and integration. Deep work. Real change. Built around you.

Start here (friction‑free): Down below you’ll find access to my Work With ME page. Once there, when you’re ready, click I Choose ME to open the contact form and send me a message. Tell me what you’re navigating, what you want instead, and what program caught your interest—or just say hi if you don’t know yet. It’s OK not to know. It’s OK not to have the words. I’ll reply by email within 2 days, and we’ll find the best next step together.

Once we decide to work together, you’ll receive everything you need to begin: your contract (my commitment, data protection, professional boundaries), your session schedule, and a secure Stripe payment link.

Your guarantee: You’re free to stop at any time. There’s no refund for sessions already used—but you’ll only be charged for the sessions completed at the single‑session rate (£150 per session). Any remaining balance will be returned. No explanations needed.

I’m UK‑based and live a nomadic life. I work with women worldwide. All programs are online, in English or Spanish—with flexible hours, so time zones aren’t a barrier. I keep my 1:1 client load intentionally small, so you get my full presence. Wherever you are in the world, in your life, in your journey—I’ll meet you there.

Remember: Only you can take this first step. Only you can initiate the conversation and make me aware of you. This is yours to take. I cannot do it for you—but once you do, you won’t walk it alone. I’ll be with you, right beside you, every step of the way. For now, Let’s talk—Just Talk➔

Work With ME

Gabriela • BetterSelf Coaching Founder • Trans Woman Life Coach for All Women • Empowerment & Identity • Intersectional, Trans-Affirming Sisterhood • Certified Life Coach • EFT & Somatic Practitioner • Emotional Coaching • You Are Not Broken • Meet Your Coach➔